Let's not beat around the bush, fellas, because there's a hell of a lot of dating advice out there that try to help us with women. Problem is, we still think that we're doing it right our own way, ignoring the solid dating tips and going at it the way we want to.
Well, model Aubrey Evans is here to put us all in our place once and for all! Not only is she a gorgeous woman who knows a thing or two about what she wants, but she also happens to write about dating, relationships and sex a lot on her blog, It Takes Two to Tango, so she kind of has a passion about making guys lose the misconceptions and avoid all those silly dating rules.
With such an understanding of dating, we talked to Aubrey Evans to pick her brain on a few things she's a pro at. Hell, she was even as nice to go above and beyond and share some stories of her own, giving guys more than a few things to remember the next time they want to approach a woman for her name and number.
FHM: Let's Just Dive In Here: What's One Thing You Can't Stand Guys Doing?
Aubrey Evans: "Saying they're going to do something and not do it. So many guys tell ladies what they think they want to hear, but it takes a real man to do exactly what he says he's going to do. Women remember that one time you were an asshole on October 17th at 9:49 p.m. in 2015, so don't think she'll forget if you said you would bring her coffee and you didn't."
FHM: What Are Some Common Misconceptions About You That Guys Might Make?
Aubrey Evans: "I can't even tell you how many times I've had people say to me, "wow you're actually really nice!" I'm honestly not sure how I might appear to other people, because I'm not in their shoes and I can't speak for others. But people that I've met have told me that they were surprised that I was just chill and easygoing. I've met a lot of beautiful women with ugly personalities, and I think men get jaded thinking that every pretty lady is just full of herself and stuck up. I like to be nice to everyone.
"Still, I'll also cut someone off in a heartbeat if they disrespect me, but up until that point, I like to think that I'm a nice person. People see my social media, and they have this idea in their minds about my life and think they know me. They see modeling and traveling pictures, and think your life is easy and it's always been that way. But that's not the case. I left home at a really young age to go after what I wanted. I didn't have a loving environment that I could fall back on if I failed. I know what it's like to struggle. I appreciate everything that I have because I worked extremely hard to get it."
FHM: We Have To Ask: Any Bedroom Tips For The Gentleman Out There?
Aubrey Evans: "Ask what the woman that you're with wants! It's really that simple, guys. The moves you used to use on your ex-girlfriend might've worked for her, but you can't assume that every woman wants and enjoys the same thing."
FHM: Any Crazy Places You've Hooked Up At That Has A Funny Story?
Aubrey Evans: (laughs) "I may or may not have hooked up in an airport family bathroom. We thought we were going to get arrested. Whoops!"