Sigh, getting a girlfriend, man, it can be a real freakin' pain in the ass. The number of things that have to occur before she says yes, well, it can feel infinite. Meeting her, building up the confidence to ask her out, going on a first date, not completely blowing the first date, pulling off a second date, and then a third, figuring out when it's OK to have sex — it never ends! Here's the thing though, guys, you're not alone! Every dude struggles with this and if nothing else, that should make you feel better!
Instead of ignoring dating altogether, try acknowledging what you might be doing wrong! No judgement, none of us are dating gurus, after all! Thanks to the following question posed by reddit user, Mcheetah, "Men: What is your biggest handicap in getting a girlfriend?", we were able to ascertain some of the biggest issues men have with getting a girlfriend.
Again, guys, this is nothing to be ashamed of, we've all been there! Let's make 2018 a year of positivity and by "positivity", we mean not being #ForeverAlone and miserable while everyone around us is buzzing with love, sex, and happiness.
Gotta Love Yourself First
Confidence Is Key
Build That Resume, Guys
Lack Of Motivation Is The Not-So Silent Killer
Yep, That'll Do It
There Are Worse Things
Beep Beep Hit The Gym
That's Mostly Fixable
Let Go Of The Baggage
Quite The Conundrum
That's What Online Dating Is For
To read the full thread, head on over to reddit to sulk along with the other painfully unsuccessful men. Don't worry, guys, there's strength in numbers.
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