We give you guys a lot of different Instagram models to gawk over every single day, but it's always awesome when we can actually sit down and talk with one of the ladies to pick their brain a bit on a number of different things. And, lucky for us, model Raven Durán was kind enough to spill her thoughts on girlfriend questions that every single man has definitely thought to himself.
It's not that dudes lose sleep over things like penis size, if their girlfriend is sharing any dirty pics we send to them with their friends or why nice guys truly seem to always finish last, but it'd be nice to know what women think, right? Of course it is, which is why Raven — an up-and-coming Instagram model in her own right — wanted to relay some answers.
Looks, fellas, there will always be girlfriend questions that we'll never know the truth to — sorry, we've just got to accept that. However, thanks to the bombshell Raven Durán, we have a better idea at what our ladies are thinking, so peep her replies below.
FHM: Do Women Prefer Guys That Play Hard To Get?
Raven Duran: "i don’t know if there will ever truly be an answer to this age old question. But, I’ll take a stab at it. Yes, we often like guys who play hard to get because their lack of availability implies that they are a man of high value… but this usually stops as we mature. Also, it’s cute and fun in the beginning, but if a guy starts playing “impossible to get,” then that's an instant turn off. I usually vanish if there are too many games from him."
FHM: Do Women Really Think D-ck Pics Are Disgusting? When Is It OK To Send Them?
Raven Duran: "Amazing question. You should definitely send one when she asks you for it. And only when she asks for it. Here’s a rule of thumb; think of an unsolicited dick pic like showing us a video of you from your childhood that's been stored away by your mom for years — we only care to see it if we’re seriously into you."
FHM: Have You Shown Your Girlfriends My Nude Pics?
Raven Duran: "Absolutely. As a matter of fact, don’t send nudes without the full disclosure that my friends will probably see them at least once. Maybe other girls have self control, but I do not. I’m sorry."
FHM: Do You Ever Think About Sleeping With Your Guy Friends?
Raven Duran: "All the time. It’s going to sound weird, but, sometimes, I try to envision what my friends are like in bed in order to find out if I’m attracted to them or not. If I like what I’m thinking about, then chances are I have a crush on them. If I think about it and it gets awkward, then we’re definitely just friends in my eyes."
FHM: Is Sex Still Enjoyable For Women If They "Don't Finish?"
Raven Duran: "Um, yes, 100 percent. Sex is amazing, even when we don’t finish. More accurately, though, if we’re having sex with someone we really like, then chances are we’re having fun by simply getting you off. Kinda romantic isn’t it?"
FHM: How Common Is It For Women To Lie About Their Orgasms?
Raven Duran: "More common than you think; at least in the beginning. I think lots of women don’t feel comfortable enough being totally honest if they don’t have an orgasm every time because they’re afraid of hurting a guys feelings. Once a relationship is more steady, we’ll probably tell the truth more often."
FHM: What Are Your Thoughts On Threesomes?
Raven Duran: "Personally, I’m not down for threesomes. In theory, it sounds sexy, but I’m just way too possessive with my partners to partake in one. So, any future boyfriends reading this, don’t bother asking. However, for everyone else, lots of ladies are super into threesomes. Some of my friends are, that's for sure. I don’t judge, and say as long as it’s safe, have fun!"
FHM: Do Women Like Men Who Wake Them Up In The Middle Of The Night For Sex?
Raven Duran: "Definitely! I think it’s super hot, and love falling back to sleep after. Just take into consideration if your girlfriend is exhausted, or had a really long day, 'cause saying no because you’re too tired sucks for both of us."
FHM: Does Size Really Matter? If So, What’s The Right Size?
Raven Duran: "The right size is the size that you are. Accept it and learn how to be the best lover with whatever you’re working with. If you can’t change it, why even think about it? If you’ve got her in bed with you, chances are she already likes you enough to be there, so your size isn’t going to scare her away. I promise."
FHM: What’s The Most Important Thing You Look For In A Man?
Raven Duran: "Belief in oneself. A man that believes in himself is capable of damn near anything, and that’s the kind of man I want by my side."
All images provided by Raven Duran, with photography via Kristopher L. Hicks, Caleb Chic and Michael Angelo.