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It's no secret that when it comes to learning how to attract women, confidence is key. Unfortunately, unlike good looks and charm, confidence is something that you simply can't fake. Women can smell right through you! In fact, some men spend their whole lives being unsuccessful with the opposite sex for that reason alone — they just can't seem to get the hang of it. Because of that, we're here to help. It may seem like a daunting task, but learning to change the conversation, not only with women, but with yourself, will yield the best results.
According to The Fearless Man, "The greatest gift you can give a woman is the most real and authentic version of yourself." Question is, what does that look like? Does it mean bending to her every will? Never challenging her? Channeling your inner-nice guy who always gets stepped on? Nope, none of those things. It's actually the exact opposite.
They continued, "If you want to give her compliments, then do it. If you have an urge to disagree with her on something, speak up When things get awkward, if you feel her getting distant, or thinking hard about something, call it out. If she asks you what you’re looking for in terms of dating, be real about whatever that is and own it – don’t be meek about it. Say what’s on your mind and ask her whatever you want to ask her."
We know that's far easier said than done, but you can't begin a relationship under the guise of constantly pleasing her. It's OK to push back, it's OK to challenge her. To be authentically yourself, is to honest, it's really that simple. If you believe you're a good catch, she will too. In that capacity, try channeling the, "Billboard Thought Experiment". The Fearless Man explains, "We can divide the types of thoughts you broadcast when you are approaching a women into the two categories we’ve been talking about: “Does She Like Me?” and “Do I Like Her.” Those are our two different profiles for how guys communicative."
By continuing to ask yourself, "Do I like her?" you're changing the conversation and building confidence. You're not so fixated on everything you're doing, but rather the experience. You're allowed to approach situations with confidence, guys, you don't always have to prove yourself. Not to prospective dates, not to anyone! You have something to offer, remember that.
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