A long time ago, us men were under the insane notion that giving oral sex led to the return favor, and while that was good and fun back in the day, the rules have changed—so actually tell your girl how much you enjoy your head between her legs.
Don't get me wrong, I'll never be one to turn down a blow job, but it's an unnecessary reward for going down on my girlfriend—especially when you know what the hell you're doing.
No girl's ever going to brag about how good her sex life is because she like's giving you head, so use these tips to blow her mind, become an oral sex pro and have her daydreaming about you.
It's easy to have an ego and just do what you think works on her, but, much like sex, if you're not vocal about what she wants, most of the time you're doing it wrong. Look, just because she's moaning and you can feel how wet she's getting, doesn't mean you're a pro. So ask where she wants your tongue the most and listen to her.
Use Your Fingers
This should absolutely be something you already do, otherwise I'm shocked your lady would even want you still going down on her. Much like she uses her hands to stroke your penis while giving you a beej for extra stimulation, you need to use your fingers while licking her clit to send chills up her spine.
Don't Lick It Like A Lollipop
You're not at the carnival with an oversized lolli, guys, so stop treating the vagina as if it's something that will eventually evaporate with licking. Unless you want your lady to just lay on her back, unaroused, unamused and unsatisfied, you'll change up your motion from just up and down and really get in there. I know, that sounds dirty, but it's oral sex, it's supposed to be a little naughty.
When You Hit The Spot, Stay There
Congratulations, guy, you've found that magic spot that has her legs pressing against both sides of your head, as she screams, moans and literally is getting her mind-blown—now don't try to get tricky. Stop trying to get cute and find other places she might like and just focus on the one you're getting the best reaction from. It may be boring just hitting that spot for you, but she's having a great time, and that's all that matters.
Move Her Hips Around
This may mean picking her up and tossing her legs over your shoulders, turning her around and eating her out in a doggie style position or simply having her straddle your face as you lay on your back, moving herself back and forth. Whatever gets her to that spot in necessary for pure enjoyment, so find the one that works best.
Take Your Time
Bottom line is this, don't rush through this thing. Sure, you're both going to be horny—with her, hopefully, dripping wet—but this isn't about you getting off, it's about her getting off. Pay close attention to what she says works, in what motions/positions she wants your tongue to move and how fast or slow she needs it. It's OK to hit the reset button while you're down there if something's not working, but be committed to your end goal.