Are ladies just as likely to indulge in some ‘self-love’ when they’re home alone with the curtains drawn?
FHM decided to set up our own research group: four hot girls in a room with beer, snacks and the task of spilling all on the secret world of bean-flicking and just how often they go solo...
Who really masturbates more, guys or girls?
Lauren: It’s a close one but I still think boys do it more.
Bryony: I agree. My boyfriend opens the laptop and it takes ten seconds. I don’t care to be honest.
Robyn: I don’t get why they do it so often, when they can get sex off us.
Ayesha: It’s a dick thing. Sometimes they can’t be bothered with the whole sexual routine.
Do you dabble in self-love?
Lauren: I’ve played, but I’ve not gone all the way and come. I feel boring now!
Ayesha: I was under the impression that all women masturbated!
Bryony: I wouldn’t be able to actually get turned on without a guy. I’ve always had sex on tap.
Robyn: Really? I’ve got a dildo and that works for me.
Ayesha: I’ve used a vibrator before and it gets you there quicker than a guy or your own hand would…
Robyn: You can do it in two minutes with a vibrator!
Ayesha: I like taking the time, though. That’s why I’m more of a masturbator – because I haven’t had sex on tap.
Where are your favourite places to masturbate?
Ayesha: The bed, the bath and the shower. Oh, shower nozzles! Girls like to feel relaxed whereas guys are more able to just do it anywhere – on a train, in the toilet. Masturbation ?is more sexy for girls, whereas guys can just whack one out.
Robyn: They’re doing it for a release, rather than the pleasure involved.
Bryony: They’re doing it for the orgasm!
Ayesha: Women are built much more for masturbation. We’re able to reach our own G-spot whereas for guys it’s awkward because it’s in their anus [laughs].
How long does a session tend to last?
Ayesha: It depends. It can take two to five minutes…
Robyn: Is that it?
Ayesha: Sometimes it lasts a couple of hours. I like taking my time.
Robyn: I’ve got a vibrator. It’s a pink rabbit one and it’s got three settings. I use it on the highest setting, that probably takes me about five minutes.
Ayesha: See, I don’t like vibrators because I think they’re going to ruin sex.
Lauren: That’s what scares me about masturbating. I don’t want to be with someone after using a vibrator and then be like, “Oh, well. This is shit.’”
So how many times a week do you do it?
Ayesha: Seven to 14 times a week.
Robyn: Once a month. It’s usually when I’ve got an empty house. I get turned on and then I’m like, “Shit, there’s no batteries,” and I run around the house like, “Remotes! Now!” When you decide you want to do it, you can’t just be like, “Later”. You’re like, “It’s gonna happen now.”
Ayesha: The moment just comes, doesn’t it? I do it when I get in from work. It’s my equivalent to a beer.
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Words: Sally McIlhone
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