The big first date — an FHM guide

Posted by , 14 September 2011



Send a friendly text in the morning to confirm your date. Give her a clue about what you are doing later in the text and what she’ll need to bring. That way she has all day to get excited about it while she stalks you on Facebook with her pals at work. It would at this point be advisable to delete any photos you don’t want Julie from HR to see from your profile.

It’s your date, so you do the organising. Take control of all the plans and never put the responsibility on her to arrange things. It may be old fashioned, but dithering like an old lady will not inspire confidence. Decisiveness and confidence have always been dead sexy.

The most important thing before you go anywhere is to be in the right headspace. Assume she already fancies the pants off you and that Julie from HR thinks you’re a stud. The date is going to be fun so you can relax and enjoy it. Once you’re having fun, so will she.

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