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The Struggle Is Real: 11 Handicaps Men Have With Getting A Girlfriend

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Sigh, getting a girlfriend, man, it can be a real freakin' pain in the ass. The number of things that have to occur before she says yes, well, it can feel infinite. Meeting her, building up the confidence to ask her out, going on a first date, not completely blowing the first date, pulling off a second date, and then a third, figuring out when it's OK to have sex — it never ends! Here's the thing though, guys, you're not alone! Every dude struggles with this and if nothing else, that should make you feel better!

Instead of ignoring dating altogether, try acknowledging what you might be doing wrong! No judgement, none of us are dating gurus, after all! Thanks to the following question posed by reddit user, Mcheetah, "Men: What is your biggest handicap in getting a girlfriend?", we were able to ascertain some of the biggest issues men have with getting a girlfriend.



Again, guys, this is nothing to be ashamed of, we've all been there! Let's make 2018 a year of positivity and by "positivity", we mean not being #ForeverAlone and miserable while everyone around us is buzzing with love, sex, and happiness.

Gotta Love Yourself First

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Confidence Is Key

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Build That Resume, Guys

Comment from discussion Men: What is your biggest handicap in getting a girlfriend?.

Lack Of Motivation Is The Not-So Silent Killer

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Yep, That'll Do It

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There Are Worse Things

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Beep Beep Hit The Gym

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That's Mostly Fixable

Comment from discussion Men: What is your biggest handicap in getting a girlfriend?.

Let Go Of The Baggage

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Quite The Conundrum

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That's What Online Dating Is For

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To read the full thread, head on over to reddit to sulk along with the other painfully unsuccessful men. Don't worry, guys, there's strength in numbers.

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