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I'm not sure if this is common knowledge, but having sex in public isn't just frowned upon it's illegal—like, really, really, illegal. I'm going to go ahead and just blame Hollywood for really botching the reality on this one. I feel like I've seen numerous movies where the leading couple manages to have on a beach or in an alley way without so much as a single person, let alone police officer, passing by. It would be okay if these films took place in say, Siberia, but more often than not they're set in Metropolitan areas like New York, Chicago, Los Angeles, etc. Good luck finding a secluded sidewalk in NYC to get down on!
It's not so much that you can't have sex in public or even shouldn't have sex in public, it's just you need to be careful. You don't want to ruin your life over an orgasm. I know in the moment it seems worth it...but it's not! In an interview with the Daily Star, celebrity sexpert, Tracey Cox detailed the benefits of adventurous outdoor sex and how to get away with it without landing yourself in The Big House.
Cox really promotes spontaneity in relationships. She explains—"The secret to loving lustily in the long-term is to surprise each other sexually. Take sex outside of the bedroom and passion is instantly renewed. But although sex on the car bonnet might seem raw and unromantic when you've a big, soft bed to roll around in contrast is key.”
Choose your time carefully—"Waking your partner up in the middle of the night, the day before an important business meeting is not going to end well. Wait for the weekend and take short naps throughout the day to build up your energy for later. Remember, early mornings are great for urban escapades as the streets are deserted but farmers get up at the crack of dawn to start work so avoid fields and country lanes between 3am and 7am."
"Standing positions are better for high-risk outdoors sex as you can easily extricate yourselves from the situation. Stand with your back to him, bend over and grab your legs or the nearest available surface. With him slipping his trousers down just a tad and you lifting your skirt, he can penetrate you and stimulate that nerve-packed God-that-feels-good front vaginal wall."