How To Tell When She's Losing Interest In Your (Probably) Crappy Relationship

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Important disclaimer: just because your girlfriend is losing interest in your relationship, doesn't mean she no longer loves you. Contrary to popular belief, men aren't the only people who get bored with monogamy. Women are incredibly dynamic creatures, who when backed into a corner of mundane ruts and routines will undoubtedly lash out. Sometimes this lashing out will culminate in a hair cut, other times, it will manifest in constantly berating you about how bored they are—why don't we travel? Why aren't you like so-and-so's boyfriend? Why am I even with you? Would I be happier alone?

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If any of this is sounding familiar, I sincerely wish you the best. Your safest option is to sit her down and have an open and honest conversation about what can be fixed and what can't. These things are never one-sided, remember that. Don't get defensive, don't turn tables—just talk it out. It's entirely possible that you HAVE become boring out of complacency and comfort. This however, is the solution and while it's helpful, that's not what we're talking about today.

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Today, we're talking about identifying the problem. No offense to any of the men reading, but from a lifetime of observation, you guys aren't always too quick on the uptake. There's a reason it's called women's intuition and not the other way around. Again, no judgement—we all have our flaws, right? I for example, deflect every uncomfortable moment in my life with biting sarcasm—it's a problem. That being said, from one human to another, I'm going to help you out. Of course, I can't speak on behalf of womankind, so don't blame me if anything goes awry—you've been warned. P.S. some of these can easily be synonymous with signs she's cheating. I'm sorry, just needed to throw that out there. AGAIN, for posterity—TALK TO HER if you're noticing any of this, will ya please?

Signs She's Losing Interest

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